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Is it weird to want this?? Please help! :)?
- Thread starter Jen
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Another girl just asked this same question lol.this is what i said to her:
it's perfectly normal to feel that way and it's great that you have a good head on your shoulders telling you to wait a while before sex. I'm not too much older than you I'm 20 and feeling the same way.I work in a hospital and see pregnant women everyday have babies.what I have to remember is that I see them on the best day of their lives.I see them over joyed by their babies no matter how old they are.What I have to remember is that the hard part comes at home with the baby and the sleepless nights and the arguing and crying...etc etc. I'm at a point in my life where if a baby happens great but I'm not going to try for it.I work full time and go to school part time getting my degree.I try to think of everything in my life that I accomplish is for the good of my future child.I graduated high school, have a steady relationship, going to college,have my own place and so on. Now we are working on getting married and saving money for a house. Try and work it out that way and see it as you are preparing for wonderful life for your future family and it makes me sort of feeling like I am at least being productive for my future baby.good luck and just enjoy the thought of a baby and not actually have one just yet.
it's perfectly normal to feel that way and it's great that you have a good head on your shoulders telling you to wait a while before sex. I'm not too much older than you I'm 20 and feeling the same way.I work in a hospital and see pregnant women everyday have babies.what I have to remember is that I see them on the best day of their lives.I see them over joyed by their babies no matter how old they are.What I have to remember is that the hard part comes at home with the baby and the sleepless nights and the arguing and crying...etc etc. I'm at a point in my life where if a baby happens great but I'm not going to try for it.I work full time and go to school part time getting my degree.I try to think of everything in my life that I accomplish is for the good of my future child.I graduated high school, have a steady relationship, going to college,have my own place and so on. Now we are working on getting married and saving money for a house. Try and work it out that way and see it as you are preparing for wonderful life for your future family and it makes me sort of feeling like I am at least being productive for my future baby.good luck and just enjoy the thought of a baby and not actually have one just yet.
bindyangel
New member
Hi. Its completely normal to have all those feelings. I used to think about having a baby all the time. I would then think about it from a baby's perspective and managed to wait it out until I was 24 and married.
I found working in daycare/babysitting and having many pets helped *LOL*
On the sexual thoughts, thats a hard one. All your hormones are making you think about it. I don't really have experience with that as I was very silly and entered a sexual relationship at 15.
I found working in daycare/babysitting and having many pets helped *LOL*
On the sexual thoughts, thats a hard one. All your hormones are making you think about it. I don't really have experience with that as I was very silly and entered a sexual relationship at 15.
I used to have those thoughts all the time as a teenager too. They're perfectly normal. Only a century ago women your age were married and having babies. There is no reason to get rid of your sexual thoughts as they are completely normal. I'm glad that you realize that you are too young to be having a baby though. The perfect release for sexual thoughts is masturbation. There is nothing wrong with it!
sharris8808
New member
What is wrong with you kids nowadays? You all want to grow up so fast. Man, when i was 16, i thought about cars and parties and 16 yr old stuff. Slow down, this world is already full of mothers who aren't ready to raise a baby.
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Punkin's mom
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It is normal. If you know someone with a baby help them out and see what taking care of a baby is really like. There is no way to get rid of the feelings. Keep in mind that having sex and a baby are very big steps and you are a step ahead by acknowledging you are too young. Good luck keeping strong and staying a virgin until you are ready.