No, I don't think it's weird- although maybe Im not your best reference as I went through something similar when I was about 17-18.
I bet if you look at yourself you will probably see a consistent dislike for anything taken to extremes, and the early feminist movement is certainly an example of things taken to extremes, leaving women my age (late 20's and early to mid-30s, I'd say) to desperately seek a balance in society between pre-feminist and feminist ideologies; thus in part the higher numbers of SAHMs choosing to leave their professional lives for up to several years in order to be full time mothers and wives. I honestly hope it is easier for women your age in a few years, and if not, at least for my own daughters, to simply and truly be what they want to be, and do what they choose to do,