qualities/habits as my older sister? Growing up I had to deal with my older sister named Katlin, and she was a nightmare.
She was very bossy and assertive, she constantly told me what to do on a regular basis. She always had to be in charge. She'd get on my case for every little thing I did, she held grudges like no other person. If I said or did something to make her mad at me, she'd let me know it every second and would glare at me constantly. She also had a terrible 'gas' problem, she could clear the room in seconds, it smelled so bad. And don't even get me started on when she used the bathroom...there was not enough air freshener in the world to get rid of THAT smell. And she would constantly sing songs out loud in this terrible 'Christina-Aguleira-Britney-Spears'-esqu… kind of voice that just annoyed the heck out of me!
Don't get me wrong, I don't hate my sister but I found a lot what she did and said to be vulgar and unattractive. But for some reason, I use HER as a template as to what I would dislike to see in men. Fortunatly, I met a guy who is NOTHING like that at all and I am now happily married, however; I still get turned off by guys I meet who exhibit the same qualities Katlin had, why is that? Why HER?
She was very bossy and assertive, she constantly told me what to do on a regular basis. She always had to be in charge. She'd get on my case for every little thing I did, she held grudges like no other person. If I said or did something to make her mad at me, she'd let me know it every second and would glare at me constantly. She also had a terrible 'gas' problem, she could clear the room in seconds, it smelled so bad. And don't even get me started on when she used the bathroom...there was not enough air freshener in the world to get rid of THAT smell. And she would constantly sing songs out loud in this terrible 'Christina-Aguleira-Britney-Spears'-esqu… kind of voice that just annoyed the heck out of me!
Don't get me wrong, I don't hate my sister but I found a lot what she did and said to be vulgar and unattractive. But for some reason, I use HER as a template as to what I would dislike to see in men. Fortunatly, I met a guy who is NOTHING like that at all and I am now happily married, however; I still get turned off by guys I meet who exhibit the same qualities Katlin had, why is that? Why HER?