Is it weird that he won't tell me his password?

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My husband of almost 4 yrs changed his email password, which I didn't think anything of until I needed it to pay his phone bill for him (which he asked me to do). And then I realized he had changed it (He had always told me it before and I never even cared to log in!) and now he changes the subject anytime I ask him. I even asked him to change the email on his phone so I can pay it since I can't get into his account but every time he changes the subject and refuses to tell me. I never cared to snoop before but now that he is acting so weird about it, I don't really know what to think and it must be driving me nuts since I keep thinking about it!!!! Any advice or insight (from male & female sides) would be super!! Thanks in advance!
 
That does sound strange.
My first assumption is maybe hes cheating.
But to be fair, it could be anything, for example, arranging a suprise for you, or buying you a lovely birthday/valentines gift.

If hes not the kind of person to cheat, then dont worry about it. Wish you my best.
 
I have been married for 2 years I have all my husbands passwords but I don't give him mine. Not because I have something to hide just because the computer is my only outside contact and he could mess my accounts up as he is useless with computers lol
 
mmmm my partner has in the past asked me to log into his accounts to check things for him etc, and he has my password for things like e-bay and other accounts I have.
However I do believe that privacy should be respected. My password is personal, and although I have nothing to hide, I dont like the thought of someone invading my personal space. on line or not. Its like reading someones diary.
Its up to you and to him, every couple is different. But if he truly has nothing to hide whats his problem?
Its not like you demanded his password, he asked you to do something for him, if he keeps changing the subject, you need to talk to him. Tell him you arent being nosy but you need to know why he asked you to do something, then took it back, and now refuses to talk to you about it.
good luck x
 
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