At one point in my life I used to pretend to be uptight and conservative with men when I was really hiding a freaky side... but more recently I have become more sexual and liberal in my conversation topics. I like to talk about sex, and when the occasion is right and it comes up I don't mind expressing my very liberal sexual opinions (though I used to refuse). I wonder if men actually have found that the women who seem uptight tend to be freaks in the sack, and that women who are more overtly sexual are boring/overcompensating? (or maybe this is just an inaccurate stereotype) Since I am freaky but have expressed both personalities "on the street" I don't know what the rule/general perception really is....
it seems to me that (unless you are just faking it) women who have trouble "opening up" or feel insecure about their sexuality, or think it's "wrong to talk about it" tend to be less confident and more uptight in bed as well.
it seems to me that (unless you are just faking it) women who have trouble "opening up" or feel insecure about their sexuality, or think it's "wrong to talk about it" tend to be less confident and more uptight in bed as well.