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Gender & Women's Studies
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times..? ...rather than choosing to have sex with a guy simply because he seems he would make a fulfilling sexual partner, women prefer to place sexual fulfillment as secondary to 'what can this guy do for me socially'?
Obvious examples would be any woman who does anything sexual with her body for money or other social compensation. Another real world example is this:
I've had plenty of female sexual partners who really didn't seem to mind that I wasn't primarily focused on their sexual needs and fulfillment in our sexual relationship yet still stuck around and gave me what I wanted (btw, I'm talking about purely bootycall and fwb relationships). AND I've observed these same women elect to turn down other men who professed to the women that they'd be giving sexual partners and maybe would even give the women a full relationship (all things I was unwilling to do, and would even tell women that I wouldn't do).
So why would women choose to have sex with men (and really 'for men') who are not even good sexual partners unless it was obvious that the woman's primary concern wasn't getting good sex, but rather trading sex for other things? (And here I'm talking about 'regular' 'decent', not just prostitutes and models and w4ores and trophy wives and all that bunch. Regular average women doing this stuff every single day of their lives.)
Obvious examples would be any woman who does anything sexual with her body for money or other social compensation. Another real world example is this:
I've had plenty of female sexual partners who really didn't seem to mind that I wasn't primarily focused on their sexual needs and fulfillment in our sexual relationship yet still stuck around and gave me what I wanted (btw, I'm talking about purely bootycall and fwb relationships). AND I've observed these same women elect to turn down other men who professed to the women that they'd be giving sexual partners and maybe would even give the women a full relationship (all things I was unwilling to do, and would even tell women that I wouldn't do).
So why would women choose to have sex with men (and really 'for men') who are not even good sexual partners unless it was obvious that the woman's primary concern wasn't getting good sex, but rather trading sex for other things? (And here I'm talking about 'regular' 'decent', not just prostitutes and models and w4ores and trophy wives and all that bunch. Regular average women doing this stuff every single day of their lives.)