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I'm 16 (almost 16 and a half) and I've never met my dad. He and my mom divorced before I was born, and...yeah. I'm not going to get into it. He's never called me, never sent me anything for birthdays or Christmas', nothing. He has two other children whom are older than me (in their 30s) and he raised them. It just doesn't seem fair to me that he raised them, and was there for them, but was never there for me. Anyway, I've had a lot of trouble going through this my entire life and I'm finally seeking therapy for it. My mom told me it'd be a good idea if I did finally meet my dad, but when she told me that, I broke down crying saying that I hated him, and had absolutely no intention of meeting him, and if I ever met him, I'd probably punch him in the face. Even though I've never met the guy, I can't help but hate my dad and I never ever *ever* want to meet him. Is that normal? Do you think I should meet him?