is it really mean to ignore a guy after the day you have sex with him?

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See this guy i've been with was my first, havent been with anyone else but him. But after finding out how much of an ass he is i dont want anything to do with him anymore. He lied to me when he told me he didnt have a girlfriend and he told me he didnt want a relationship right now with me so i assumed he was single and there might of been a chance for us (immature me i know). i dont know if he was with her the whole time or if he just recently got with her, i dont really care anymore bottom line he's cheating on her and using me, basically playin us both. So the other night was the last night i slept with him. He text the next day but i didnt text back. If i keep ignoreing him will he eventually leave me alone? or is he going to keep trying to contact me?, he says our sex is bomb and he missed me because we hadnt talked for a good two months when he started acting funny and ignored my texts. (because of his girlfriend he forgot to mention i assume), but knowing he has a girlfriend isnt cool and i just dont like him like i did in the begining. i think he might just be trying to keep me close because i've only been with him and he doesnt want me to sleep with anyone else. My male cousin said i will always be on his mind because he took my virginity, he's been in a situation like this and he says he still thinks about the girl who's virginity he took. he says he may never really leave me completely alone. However after this whole mess i'm making a decision to stay celibite until i find a good boyfriend who i can fully trust.
 
if this guy has a girlfriend or whatever and you werent sure if he did in the first place, you shouldnt even really associate yourself with him. because if he does have a girlfriend, then he is probably just using you. i mean he might have a connection with you because he took your virginity and everything, but you know he also just wants sex. your sex is 'bomb' lmao so he obviously thinks that if he comes to you youll give it to him. if hes being really shady, then just ignore him. its not really mean, considering hes the one in the wrong. or you can just tell him youre done doing stuff with him and that youre not gonna be used anymore. its messed up that he has a girlfriend and is having sex with you. im sure if you keep ignoring him hell get the picture, but it might be better to just tell him how you feel. stand up for yourself.
 
I am kind of going through the same thing. I had sex with a guy back in October. I really liked this guy and I thought it was going somewhere. But after we "hung out" he ignored me. I tried talking to him but he said he was too busy, and I know he got a girlfriend for awhile. We didn't talk for 3 or 4 months, and now we are talking again. He decided to text me one day, and we're going to hang out soon.

I am also going through this with an ex, he keeps texting me and doesn't want me to be with anyone else.

But really, if you want this guy to leave you alone, ignore all his texts. Ignore everything. Drop him like a bad habit. But if you like him talk to him. Tell him what you want. Tell him you don't want him lying to you or anything.

I personally think this guy is just using you. Of course you're gonna be on his mind....for sex! Sounds like he only wants you for sex, and that's lame.
 
Yeah just keep ignoring him he's a douche. It's not up to him whether or not you sleep with other guys, you aren't his property. Tell him to get lost.
 
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