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Chastise the child
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Well I have been dating this guy for a while now. We first met at a cafe down the street from my former place of residence. He initiated a conversation with me out of the blue about some anime magazine I was reading. ( he loves anime and so do I but that is beside the point). We hit it off and had a connection although it was on a friendship level at that point. At the time I had a boyfriend who was a total jerk and that relationship was coming to an end.
Long story short that relationship came to an end and I started dating my current bf at that point. Our relationship didn't turn physical until a year into it. It was my first time having sex. After it turned physical our relationship or interaction rather seemed to change. Whereas we used to keep up contact throughout the week through phone chats, email etc... After the physical aspect of our relationship started he seemed to lose interest in keeping up even a normal amount of contact (he wouldn't even do like one call each day or every two days). He would complain that he was tired; I wouldn't hear from him at all the whole week until the weekend. It eventually got to the point that he just came over on weekends to my house and we had sex.
I moved in with him a few months ago. Basically he goes to work and when he comes home he doesn't really seem interested in talking to me or spending any time with me at all. He just comes home plays video games, watches movies all afternoon long, which is time we could spend together. He just ignores me and gets irritable if I try to spark a convo. Then like 15 minutes before bed he will suddenly start telling me he loves me and acting affectionate. After which he tries to escalate the touching to sex. I just feel like we don't talk anymore or even interact at all unless he wants sex. I am living with him and all and I would think that would mean that he is serious about me but his behavior says otherwise.
Long story short that relationship came to an end and I started dating my current bf at that point. Our relationship didn't turn physical until a year into it. It was my first time having sex. After it turned physical our relationship or interaction rather seemed to change. Whereas we used to keep up contact throughout the week through phone chats, email etc... After the physical aspect of our relationship started he seemed to lose interest in keeping up even a normal amount of contact (he wouldn't even do like one call each day or every two days). He would complain that he was tired; I wouldn't hear from him at all the whole week until the weekend. It eventually got to the point that he just came over on weekends to my house and we had sex.
I moved in with him a few months ago. Basically he goes to work and when he comes home he doesn't really seem interested in talking to me or spending any time with me at all. He just comes home plays video games, watches movies all afternoon long, which is time we could spend together. He just ignores me and gets irritable if I try to spark a convo. Then like 15 minutes before bed he will suddenly start telling me he loves me and acting affectionate. After which he tries to escalate the touching to sex. I just feel like we don't talk anymore or even interact at all unless he wants sex. I am living with him and all and I would think that would mean that he is serious about me but his behavior says otherwise.