is it okay to want to have sex at 15 and maybe get pregnant?

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Alexandra

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No. Dont have a child at 15. You're not onld enough. I'm 16 and I know a junior who had a baby, she loves it with all her heart but the guy she thought would stay with her forever, dumped her and denies the fact that he's the father. Don't have sex unless you're willing to stay up all night dealing with crying babies, stop going to school to get a job to afford the baby, change babies poop diapers, and probably get nasty looks and comments from people.

Either way, unless you're married and have a baby, the baby's considered a bastard. And I'm DAMN sure the baby's father isnt going to stick around.
Youre parents will be pissed at you for sure. Finish school and live a bit before having a baby.

And as soon as you have sex with him, he's not going to respect you the same way anymore. Do you want a relationship based on love or based on sex? Hmmm?

And half of ALL TEENAGE relationships end.
 
okay well im going to be a sophmor in highschool and im dating a junior and he is the sweetest guy iv ever met and so happy i have him is it okay that i'v had thoughts about having sex with him and maybe starting a family only after being with him for like a month?
 
You aren't ready for a family and neither is he. Need to wait til after high school and you both have steady income. Having a baby is a big step and it is best to be fully prepared for it. Plus people change a lot after high school and you may come to realize you aren't as into each other as you used to be. Don't try to grow up to fast.
 
How could you want a child when your only a child yourself. I am grown and I have a child an one on the way. It's not picnic I love my child and I would not change having her for the world. But your only 15 and you want to do adult things and when you do stuff like that you end up hurt. You may want a baby right now, but you have so much to look forward to before having a baby and starting a family. You should really really really finish school then go on to college or pick up a trade. have a career and then start a family. You best bet is to not have sex, but if you choose to please please please us protection. I have a cousin around your age she has 2 kids and no education, no job, no money and no apartment of her own. She is not able to go back to school because she does not have a sitter for her kids. Please don't' make the same mistake she has. She is all alone raising her kids and it's not fun! How do you even know that the boy your with wants kids? he might say he will stay but in the long run they usually RUN of to be with someone else and your stuck at home with the kids while he is off doing his thing. Please use your head and not your hormones. Please!
 
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