Is it okay to make brand new friends of the opposite sex if your in a serious...

hbn_235

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...relationship? Is it okay to make brand new friends of the opposite sex if your in a serious relationship? My girl and I been together for 6 months....we agree and understand that we have friends of the opposite sex...but lately all of her male friends except 2 of them have been very negative towards our relationship ( either that or she leading them on to get what she wants) and i meant only a few of them.....she refuse to meet any of my female friends and always calling them bitches, hoes, etc.....but I too as well cut sum female friends off cuz dey constantly acting negative towards our relationship. my girl one day decides to make brand new friends of the opposite sex and it really concerns me because i do not know the intent of these new friends, yes I do trust her but i don't trust dem at like one new friend she meant he ask her if she had a BF, she told him yeah but he tryed to take her away from me on the low and really liked her....so whenever he have a get together he invite everybody else but me and i told her how i felt about her hanging with him, she refused to listen until one day she realize he was try to use her as a rebound, but now all of the sudden she wants to stop hanging with him....but basically every time i tell her about these new friends she doesn't listen to me until she finds out they are doing her dirty or trying to use her but if i decide to make a new friends with females she'll snap and be like imma cheat on her, etc......idk wats up dis situation but i need u all answer and advice!
 
it's okay to make new friends, but be very careful. You have to be honest with each other.

A lot of times it's best to hang out with these new friends in a big group so the other person won't worry so much.
 
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