me and this girl have liked each other for ages right but she says she dont want a boyfriend, and we been trhough quite a lot, I just feel she is afraid to let go and fall in love coz she been hurt so many tiems in past, and now she tries to control everything and not let herself fall, but in the end she only makes it worse for herself right?
I mean, I don't even know her friends but would it be normal to say to one of them like, has she ever said anything about me? i mean girls always talk right so she must know what is going on coz my girl just won't tell me, ill just be like "hey u dont know me but, im close with (my girls name) and has she ever said anything about me?...coz i don't understand her, just be straight with me and in be cool if we kept this between us" or is that bad idea??
I mean, I don't even know her friends but would it be normal to say to one of them like, has she ever said anything about me? i mean girls always talk right so she must know what is going on coz my girl just won't tell me, ill just be like "hey u dont know me but, im close with (my girls name) and has she ever said anything about me?...coz i don't understand her, just be straight with me and in be cool if we kept this between us" or is that bad idea??