Fallen Angel
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My husband and me are thinking of divorcing. We both live in different countries. He really wants to divorce me and he is the one who has started the procedures. Yesterday after more than two weeks he called me. He said he called just to know if am ok and how i am doing. We ended up talking to each other for nearly 2hrs and at start both of us were pointing out why we are getting divorced. I keep trying to tell him that we can still make our relationship work. He wants to divorce me because he says he doesnt trust me anymore as he found some texts on my mobile to a colleague and he says that i was unfaithful to him in my mind. He reckons that there was nothing physical.There wasnt anything serious in the texts i sent my colleague. I asked him if i could touch his hair, he told me that i was crazy.End of story. Before leaving work for my wedding i told him that i enjoyed every moment we spent together because we were working on projects together and it was enriching to know about his ideas, how he tackled things at work.
Presently i dont have any contact with one except my husband and you people on yahoo.
So yeah, after all our discussion, i told him i still love him a lot and i miss him. Then he asked me what i miss with him, and i said holding his hand & kissing it while sleeping. He asked me if that's all then i said i miss the things we used to do in bed and so on. Then he told me to mail him about my fantasies. He said not to text him because that would distract him at work.
Is it ok for me to do so? Is it ok for me to tell him those things,talk about the things we used to do after all that happened? Can he use that against me in court if he still wants to go ahead?
Presently i dont have any contact with one except my husband and you people on yahoo.
So yeah, after all our discussion, i told him i still love him a lot and i miss him. Then he asked me what i miss with him, and i said holding his hand & kissing it while sleeping. He asked me if that's all then i said i miss the things we used to do in bed and so on. Then he told me to mail him about my fantasies. He said not to text him because that would distract him at work.
Is it ok for me to do so? Is it ok for me to tell him those things,talk about the things we used to do after all that happened? Can he use that against me in court if he still wants to go ahead?