Is it ok to have sex with your step brother?

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Ok, so here's the story. My dad and step mom got married when i was ten, and my step brother was nine. I also have an older step brother who was about fourteen at the time. Up until about last year, i had felt the same about both of them. I loved them both as brothers. But that all changed.

Me and younger step brother (who is now fourteen, and im fifteen) started to mess around. Just like kiss, make out, touch each other etc. And then he told me he loved me. And i felt the same about him, he is so nice, sweet and funny. Then he said that he wanted to have sex, if i was ready. And i said okay- but ended up backing out in the last second. He didn't say anything but a few days later he told me when i was at my moms online that he liked someoene else and we shouldn't do anything.
Then, the next weekend i was over he kissed me. I asked him what he was doing and he said he couldn't help himself. At that moment i knew i couldn't lose him, i cried when he told me we shouldn't do anything anymore. So i promised him sex. But this past weekend (the weekend i said it would happen) i chickened out-AGAIN. I feel so bad, beyond bad. Friday night he got a little upset, and i cried. And instantly he came over and comforted me like a ture gentlemen. I was touched, we ended up messing around a bit and fell asleep together in his bed. Then the next night i refused him again and he told me he was used to it by now/ Which made me feel bad.
I don't know what to do. Should I have sex with him? Should i tell him to respect me and if i say no then i mean no, and hope that he'll stay by my side. Or should maybe i just tell him this is wrong. And we are step siblings and that we should just stop now. Help!
 
Well you are not blood related, so it is possible for you to have relationship if you want to. But I think the biggest concern here would be what your parents would think. Would they approve? Would your friends and family be outraged or disgusted? If so, then I dont think you should do anything, because you are still very young, and most likely will not end up together in the end. But you might lose the rest of your family and friends along the way. Do what you think is right, not what your bodies want to do.
 
Whether you're related by blood or not, there is still a familial connection and people will look at you like you ARE brother and sister. Back off and let him go his own way. You are a strong girl and you know it isn't right. Which is why you've backed off. It's not the right time to have sex for you. Not to mention that before you do, you need to think about things seriously- birth control! You also should prepare yourself mentally for the consequences of sex. You could get pregnant regardless of birth control. If you feel you're ready for sex, you need to know you can handle a baby- or a disease. Be logical. And, don't have sex with your step brother just because you don't want to lose him or upset him. You are worth much more than that, I hope this helps.
 
Whether you're related by blood or not, there is still a familial connection and people will look at you like you ARE brother and sister. Back off and let him go his own way. You are a strong girl and you know it isn't right. Which is why you've backed off. It's not the right time to have sex for you. Not to mention that before you do, you need to think about things seriously- birth control! You also should prepare yourself mentally for the consequences of sex. You could get pregnant regardless of birth control. If you feel you're ready for sex, you need to know you can handle a baby- or a disease. Be logical. And, don't have sex with your step brother just because you don't want to lose him or upset him. You are worth much more than that, I hope this helps.
 
ok i honestly dont think you should be doing anthything with him i mean yr kissing him and touching no offence but thats gross to do with yr bro
 
Whoa, this is scaring me because I have a 9 year old daughter and and an 8 year old soon-to be step son. They play together a lot and are very close. Anyway, I'm curious to know, how in the world did you guys stop seeing each other like family and start seeing each other like boyfriends? I am sure your parents would not approve of this whatsoever. Even though you two do not share the same blood, you are still family and you should NEVER cross that line again. he is a horny 14 year old and you are a curious 15 year old. Both of you are still kids and you need to get your heads our of your behinds. What you guys are doing is so wrong. Do not continue this and never sleep with him. Just imagine the heartache, scandal and embarrassment would put yourself and you entire family if anyone ever found out or if god forbid you got pregnant. Start thinking with your brain and focus on other things, like school, sports, whatever it is you do. Anything but this brother of yours.
 
Whoa, this is scaring me because I have a 9 year old daughter and and an 8 year old soon-to be step son. They play together a lot and are very close. Anyway, I'm curious to know, how in the world did you guys stop seeing each other like family and start seeing each other like boyfriends? I am sure your parents would not approve of this whatsoever. Even though you two do not share the same blood, you are still family and you should NEVER cross that line again. he is a horny 14 year old and you are a curious 15 year old. Both of you are still kids and you need to get your heads our of your behinds. What you guys are doing is so wrong. Do not continue this and never sleep with him. Just imagine the heartache, scandal and embarrassment would put yourself and you entire family if anyone ever found out or if god forbid you got pregnant. Start thinking with your brain and focus on other things, like school, sports, whatever it is you do. Anything but this brother of yours.
 
well that sounds kind of bad that you want to be with your
step brother but no if your not ready(which i think could also
be because you guys are related by marriage) than tell him
that he BETTER respect you and your wishes.
 
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