is it ok for us to have sex?

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Hey, My name is Jordan And i am 15 and i Have i girlfriend called Rachael. Me and her have been dating for about 4 months and we really feel like we know eachother so much. We have alot in common and even better, the way our minds work and the way we think seems to be the same. me and her have been very intimate over the past month or so and it just started from french kissing and then it built up over the month to coming round to my house and kissing and doing foreplay in my bedroom, we have not had sex but we both want it. Me and Rach communicate very well and we have had long discussions about how we feel about all this, we both seem to be confused because we really want to have sex but i dont know if it is right, i know it it is illegal but to me that doesnt matter. we are both mature and we know the risks we would be making, we know to use protection. She tells me she feels 100% ready and i feel 99% ready, the only thing that i am worried about is if it is actually the right time. we have had days to think about it and now she says she feels that is is definitely right. and i feel the same, but what could happen? would doing it if we both wanted to wreck our relationship, or would it bring us closer? me and her are very sensible and we DO take care and think before we do things which is why i am asking you people. I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life, i feel that this relationship should go further and so does Rach, should we? Thanks alot :)
 
NO> Get college over with. You really dont want babies in the picture. Even though the chances are low the cost will be you education and it affects the rest of your life.
 
i am fifteen and im not a virgin
its fun and it feels good....just make sure to be super super safe k??
 
love is not defined through sex and neither you have been through a lot to say it really is love. it appears to be love but you'll learn that as you grow older, you'll be able to define love in a better manner. for now, it is your decision and no one else could interfere with your decision. but after the act, what's next? there is uncertainty of tomorrow and both of you have lost something that many have lost themselves. perhaps the true man is not the man who can lay down the most number of girls but the man who has seen the girl beyond the experience he get from her. when you have seen that, you'll know when the right time is
 
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