Is it ok for husbands to chat online with other girls?

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Crystal

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My husband has recently gotten an imesh account. When I got on the computer a pop up came up that had a girl half naked requesting he be friends with her. I thought it was stupid and didnt think he would actually add her but he did. When I tried to talk to him about it, he thought it was stupid that I was mad he added her. I explained that it hurt my feelings that he would try to be friends with someone who clearly is there for sexual reasons. He eventually gave me an apology and I accepted. The next day I got online and another pop up came and said that his friend request was accepted from a different girl. I was frustrated so i looked into his stuff and he had been looking up several girls to chat to. Not just any girls, girls that were clearly there for something other than friends. I have expressed that this hurts my feelings and he still thinks its not a big deal. IF he is looking for other girls to talk to, doesnt that mean that Im not all he wants.
 
If you have told him it bothers you and he does not care,there is something wrong. Just for the fact that it bothers you he should stop.
 
If these girls live close, I would be very worried.

If they live far away, I would worry that his fantasizing would soon lead to meeting women who live close.

Either way, this doesnt sound right.
 
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