Is it normal for this to make me feel weird?

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My gf has a really great body and I love to remind her of this a lot! But she never really told me anything about my body until I pointed out that she never says anything. And like, now when I tell her how beautiful she is, it just seems like she tries so hard to make me feel the same way, but I kind of hate it because I completely don't think that it's genuine. She says that she feels stupid for never telling me before, but that she always thought it. And she tries to tell me only what I want to hear, rather than just saying it how it is or just doing like before and not saying anything. My body is just skinny with some fat and she insists so much that it's the greatest and what she has dreamed of, but how the hell could that be somebody's dream body? Really, please tell me if that's even possbile! And now, I just don't know how to feel when she says it, because I know that it's not true=/. I was telling her how I never could have imagined being with her just because she's so beautiful! And then she kept saying that it was the same, but I think that we both know....I'm just an average looking guy and she is beautiful! And she also says that I'm the greatest kisser, and everything else etc etc. She's kissed 50 guys and is Brazilian! There's NO WAY that she HAS NOT had a better looking person or kisser,,,,,so is it normal that I should feel like this? I almost feel like she's lying to me, and it just makes me feel terrible receiving these false compliments....like as if it was something that I don't deserve=/
I know, and we get along perfectly....our relationship is amazing....but I just want to look good FOR HER! so that she can be proud of my body, not just ok with it =/
 
She's probably a little uncomfortable when you compliment her so much and feels pressured to do the same for you. Because you told her that she never says anything about your body, she probably feels like she'll offend you if she doesn't say something really good about your body. Also, she might think that you're only complimenting her because you want compliments about yourself, which could also make her feel obligated to compliment you even if she doesn't really love your body. I don't think you should worry about your body too much, though; relationships are more about having someone you can talk to and love than a great body.
 
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