This guy and I are roomates. He also happens to be the landlord (he owns the condo)..
I moved in a month and a half ago, and we have become friendly..and I would consider him a friend. We are not dating...both of us don't want a relationship.
He has been hurt in past relationships. He admits he is basically starved for human touch and wants someone in bed with him at night, as he hates sleeping alone. We've had sex many times..but to him intimate touching is more important than sex and emotional intimacy is the most imporant for him.
Sex to him is about feeling close and intimate. He really loves touching..even if it doesn't lead to sex.
He basically wants to be emotionally close. I'm not ready for that. Also, he wants me to sleep with him in the same bed with him most nights..no sex involved. He just wants a body in the bed next to him. However, I like my space and don't really want to sleep with him in his bed.
Last night I refused to touch him and sleep with him in his bed.
He then got extremely angry and said that we will never touch eachother again.
Why would he give me an ultimatium that we will never touch eachother again just because I didn't want touch him last night?
I moved in a month and a half ago, and we have become friendly..and I would consider him a friend. We are not dating...both of us don't want a relationship.
He has been hurt in past relationships. He admits he is basically starved for human touch and wants someone in bed with him at night, as he hates sleeping alone. We've had sex many times..but to him intimate touching is more important than sex and emotional intimacy is the most imporant for him.
Sex to him is about feeling close and intimate. He really loves touching..even if it doesn't lead to sex.
He basically wants to be emotionally close. I'm not ready for that. Also, he wants me to sleep with him in the same bed with him most nights..no sex involved. He just wants a body in the bed next to him. However, I like my space and don't really want to sleep with him in his bed.
Last night I refused to touch him and sleep with him in his bed.
He then got extremely angry and said that we will never touch eachother again.
Why would he give me an ultimatium that we will never touch eachother again just because I didn't want touch him last night?