is it just me or is the ''situation'' really rude to girls?

[Hayley]

ok so i never really got into the whole ''omg jersey shore'' thing. honestly i think its pretty dumb that all they do is put drama out there so everyone can see. anyways.. my friends for some reason watch it and i was at a friends and they turned it on because they just haaad to watch it, i dont understand why! anyways.. i think the situation is a douche and he is rude to girls. like he will just call them sh*t or like how he hit the little one or wtf ever her name is in the mouth. i was like WOW... id soo hit him back. but apparently these girls on the show like to be treated like trash so ya