person and not look at porn? The more I read answers on this site, the more alarmed I become. I am very alarmed not because I find people on here very radical but because the people here are normal. The normality of society today is to have sex whenever you want with any consented adult of your choice and if things aren't going well in your sex life, to either drop your partner or spice up the relationship with porn. This is very disturbing especially when normal people on here answer questions asked by distraught women over their spouse's porn problems by encouraging the woman to join him in it. People who choose to live an honorable and chaste life, having sex with only one person-their spouse--and choosing never to look at porn, are mocked and ridiculed as prudes. We have gotten to a point where it is viewed as taboo to be against pornography or to be upset at one's spouse's usage of it and people are now saying that it is the fault of someone who finds fault in pornography and not the fault of the porn viewer himself/herself when issues such as these arise.