...to make out in uk? not sex? EXTENDED INFORMATION!!!
stranger - (not knowing at first she is under age - 15 ) and she said she was 17, liked me and would contact/meet me later in the night it was around 11pm
wondering her intentions, I created a template as i met her 30 mins after by accident when i was walking home.. 2nd encounter
i showed her it and asked ( "do you wna make out? we can if you like, no sex or pressure in it involved though. Your friend can come and keep distance but stay if its what you want? You said summthing earlier about waiting for friends and then you two going park? i've got some money if you guys wna go somewere, unless you guys would rather split it. Totally up to you, no pressure, not forcing you. if not then it's cool and i'll go.") ...
I thought it was what she wanted as her and her cousin approached me - a random person - and her cousin asked for my number, and said the other girl (younger cousin) was 16/17 and liked me.. I gave it them then we left. I am 19.
I left and walked around my area and they saw me and approached me again 3rd time and decided to walk with me.Later on her cusin sister softly robbed me and said she wouldnt give the phone back and then displayed and threatened me with a knife as i was going to try and get it back but hesitated and didnt. Then her friend a boy ran from nowere and punched me in the head, and they all made a move out. All of them all caught on CCTV camera and got arrested literally 30 seconds later as i was lucky to have a police van drive past me. i got punched, robbed, and threaten with a knife. I am scared the girl who is going to trail might seek redemption over a misunderstanding and because of rage of the robbery.
The cousin is arrested and going on trial, the rest have been released. arrested and is going on trial. The phone is stolen and lost and there is no trace or evidence of me writing that draft. I live in the UK .. we haven't had any sexual physical relationship at all. She has been pleading guilty but is she doesnt in trial i will have to go trial and court with her, and my concerns are that she may try to turn y words againts me even though my actions were only done because of what she portryaed and said to me.
When I said if she wanted to kiss and make out, i was trying to confirm her intentions and see what she said earlier meant what would usually be implied in a circumstance when a girl says shes 17 and wants to link at midnight alone.
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I've just been worried about -sexting (even though it was a draft not a text)
and solicitation (even though she said she was 16/17 and only until after i showed her the draft, told me they were both under 16) .. Whats the worst that can happen to me? A warning? In the case that they took my mobile force without much force, but then said they wouldnt give it back, and when i tried getting it unforcefully she got her knife out and i backked off and then the police driving by caught and arrested them. all covered by cctv,, the crime,, the rest was in a different location. IT HAS BEEN REPORTED AS A KNIFE ROBBERY. They threw the phone away and the police tried finding it and the knife but couldn't, and police have blocked the phone.
----- I did not know about any of this before, and most people told me not to worry because i hadn't showed any images, nor had i touched her, and she lied about her age, plus i didn't send her the text, showed it to her as a draft on the mobile which is missing, and evidence has to be needed on there behalf to say this is true, but my friend told me not to lie as i was lied to in the first place and hadn't had physical contact and also the court is more lickly to stand for me as i got punched, robbed and threatened later by a knife -----
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I also know it isnt a very acceptable way of showing interest in a women.. i was in a serious long term relationship and broke up a month ago (no i wasn't a jerk etc, im sentimental and loving and caring and don't ever swear or do anything morally/ethically wrong) with the majority of the problems being created being her. This is the first time I've ever been wild like this. I've also been on anti-depressents, citalopram and have had of mood swings and depression and self harm, pathological crying and eating problem - weight loss. Also in the last 4 weeks of college, btec 100% coursework and A level study and going uni this year to study forensic science degree so stress was high before and has been increased due to this.
stranger - (not knowing at first she is under age - 15 ) and she said she was 17, liked me and would contact/meet me later in the night it was around 11pm
wondering her intentions, I created a template as i met her 30 mins after by accident when i was walking home.. 2nd encounter
i showed her it and asked ( "do you wna make out? we can if you like, no sex or pressure in it involved though. Your friend can come and keep distance but stay if its what you want? You said summthing earlier about waiting for friends and then you two going park? i've got some money if you guys wna go somewere, unless you guys would rather split it. Totally up to you, no pressure, not forcing you. if not then it's cool and i'll go.") ...
I thought it was what she wanted as her and her cousin approached me - a random person - and her cousin asked for my number, and said the other girl (younger cousin) was 16/17 and liked me.. I gave it them then we left. I am 19.
I left and walked around my area and they saw me and approached me again 3rd time and decided to walk with me.Later on her cusin sister softly robbed me and said she wouldnt give the phone back and then displayed and threatened me with a knife as i was going to try and get it back but hesitated and didnt. Then her friend a boy ran from nowere and punched me in the head, and they all made a move out. All of them all caught on CCTV camera and got arrested literally 30 seconds later as i was lucky to have a police van drive past me. i got punched, robbed, and threaten with a knife. I am scared the girl who is going to trail might seek redemption over a misunderstanding and because of rage of the robbery.
The cousin is arrested and going on trial, the rest have been released. arrested and is going on trial. The phone is stolen and lost and there is no trace or evidence of me writing that draft. I live in the UK .. we haven't had any sexual physical relationship at all. She has been pleading guilty but is she doesnt in trial i will have to go trial and court with her, and my concerns are that she may try to turn y words againts me even though my actions were only done because of what she portryaed and said to me.
When I said if she wanted to kiss and make out, i was trying to confirm her intentions and see what she said earlier meant what would usually be implied in a circumstance when a girl says shes 17 and wants to link at midnight alone.
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I've just been worried about -sexting (even though it was a draft not a text)
and solicitation (even though she said she was 16/17 and only until after i showed her the draft, told me they were both under 16) .. Whats the worst that can happen to me? A warning? In the case that they took my mobile force without much force, but then said they wouldnt give it back, and when i tried getting it unforcefully she got her knife out and i backked off and then the police driving by caught and arrested them. all covered by cctv,, the crime,, the rest was in a different location. IT HAS BEEN REPORTED AS A KNIFE ROBBERY. They threw the phone away and the police tried finding it and the knife but couldn't, and police have blocked the phone.
----- I did not know about any of this before, and most people told me not to worry because i hadn't showed any images, nor had i touched her, and she lied about her age, plus i didn't send her the text, showed it to her as a draft on the mobile which is missing, and evidence has to be needed on there behalf to say this is true, but my friend told me not to lie as i was lied to in the first place and hadn't had physical contact and also the court is more lickly to stand for me as i got punched, robbed and threatened later by a knife -----
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I also know it isnt a very acceptable way of showing interest in a women.. i was in a serious long term relationship and broke up a month ago (no i wasn't a jerk etc, im sentimental and loving and caring and don't ever swear or do anything morally/ethically wrong) with the majority of the problems being created being her. This is the first time I've ever been wild like this. I've also been on anti-depressents, citalopram and have had of mood swings and depression and self harm, pathological crying and eating problem - weight loss. Also in the last 4 weeks of college, btec 100% coursework and A level study and going uni this year to study forensic science degree so stress was high before and has been increased due to this.