Is It for love or sex?

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There is this guy that i knew since i was 5.. and we kind of grew up together. (knew him for 13 yrs.) and now a few days ago we were talking and he started flirting with me. In the beginning we were just talking and messing around, and making fun of me Lol and then the conversation got a little sexual and though im having fun talking to him like we are, I can't help but wonder if he's just horney and needs someone sexual or if he really cares about me?
Now i get the feeling that its just sexual, but hey! everyone should get the benefit of the doubt...
 
Here is a fact: some guys can be horrible people, whether they try to be or not. Some just try to manipulate you, but some guys don't exactly know what they're doing, and some guys think that sex is the only way to express their feelings. It mostly depends on what kind of person he is, and guys can get pretty confused about what girls think or want. I know this since I am a guy, and I think girls are pretty complicated. It's all based on your judgment and what you know about him, and how he acts towards you.
 
Okay key thing most women do not get.

Men do not have as sex side / and a love side. It's all warped up in the same . . . ha ha . . package. You cant have one without the other.

Sex for guys . . . Is a need. We cant help it.
It is tied to our emotions however. . . . . .

When you begin to question a guys intentions like this . . . it can hurt his feelings. Even if he's after more then sex . . . Are you?

Don't play with him unless you do.
 
The only way to really find out is by asking him..
So casually bring it up next time you guys are in deep conversation about something, or If you can't go through with it, ask him online or through a txt, be like "so do you like me?"
 
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