I have just started dating a military guy who goes out of town for work just about every other week. While out of town, him and his crew go out bar diving until 3, 4, and 5 am every night. It really bothers me and makes me uncomfortable. As I have some cheater issues, as I am sure every other person alive has, I worry that my insecurities might be making his behavior seem more disrespectful than they actually are.
I doubt that the married men in his "unit" stay out as late to drink and yet understand he is not yet married, but still...
Am I justified at being displeased by this or should I just bury the ex-files and accept my new relationship and it's new criteria?
I doubt that the married men in his "unit" stay out as late to drink and yet understand he is not yet married, but still...
Am I justified at being displeased by this or should I just bury the ex-files and accept my new relationship and it's new criteria?