Well, you made a promise with your vow. Unless you feel your life or health is at stake (or that of your children,) then no I do not believe in divorce. There are times I'd love to pretend I'd divorce my husband, he can make me so MAD at times, but I know I won't and I know that if I loved him enough to marry him, then no matter in I fall out of love, that there was something there once and I just have to make an effort to find that being in-love again. It had happened once, but we made it through and I am more in-love with him then I ever have been !