after baby is born ? I have a huge family. 8 siblings, all married with kids except the 2 youngest. Mom & Dad. We are all very close, and I feel comfortable with them all coming to see me in the hospital. (in laws live 18 hours away) but we have a few friends who have already told us to call them so they can come visit while we're in the hospital. I feel like it's a private room, if I've been through a rough delivery and laying in bed, i wouldn't want anyone else there. Just family, and even then, not all day. I will be breast feeding also. And I also worry about how many people could get my baby sick. Is this crazy?? Be honest!! Thank you.