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aint settlin'
Guest
my best friend is a few years younger than i am... she lives similar to a lifestyle i livED... when i was her age, i went out a lot...
*would go out early in the evening, and drink, but still be out until early the next morning..
* i would "hook-up" with random men, not really even knowing them too well...
* i ended up being in a long-term VERY ABUSIVE relationship with one of guys i met...
i worry that she is going to end up doing the same STUPID THINGS i did, and wasting, and ruining her life...
we both have very low self esteem and self worth... we both turn to other things to fill the void we have...
i have grown up TREMENDOUSLY !!!! i have a 4 year old daughter, and i have been with a man who is not her father for near 3 years... her dad and i could not get along, and he was by far the biggest downfall of my life....
i worry about her... i just gpt the courage to express my concerns to her,and i think i pissed her off... was i wrong ??? i dont wanna lose her, because she is my best friend, but what was i to do ?? say nothing, and read about her either being dead, or doing something really bad and going to jail ??? what was i to do ?? where should i go from here ??? please herlp...
sincerely,
a very concerned friend.....
*would go out early in the evening, and drink, but still be out until early the next morning..
* i would "hook-up" with random men, not really even knowing them too well...
* i ended up being in a long-term VERY ABUSIVE relationship with one of guys i met...
i worry that she is going to end up doing the same STUPID THINGS i did, and wasting, and ruining her life...
we both have very low self esteem and self worth... we both turn to other things to fill the void we have...
i have grown up TREMENDOUSLY !!!! i have a 4 year old daughter, and i have been with a man who is not her father for near 3 years... her dad and i could not get along, and he was by far the biggest downfall of my life....
i worry about her... i just gpt the courage to express my concerns to her,and i think i pissed her off... was i wrong ??? i dont wanna lose her, because she is my best friend, but what was i to do ?? say nothing, and read about her either being dead, or doing something really bad and going to jail ??? what was i to do ?? where should i go from here ??? please herlp...
sincerely,
a very concerned friend.....