Lost'N'Found
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ok so about 8 months ago i got out of a relationship i naively thought would last forever. im not 100% over it but im certainly getting there.
last week some guy told me he's like me since last october and that he is totally fine with taking things slow as long as he gets to be with me...
it was all going ok, till he started doing EXACTLY the same thing this ex did when we first started "dating"...even down to calling me baby BEFORE even our first date and then apologising like 50 million times afterwards for the SAME reason, "sorry, but to me that's who you already are..."
i know i shouldnt judge a new relationship on a past one because its not fair but this is too uncanny and i fear this guy is going to break my heart just like the last.
what should i do?
mabuttle - it would be easier not to judge it according to my last if he didnt do the exact same things!
read the question before you answer please.
last week some guy told me he's like me since last october and that he is totally fine with taking things slow as long as he gets to be with me...
it was all going ok, till he started doing EXACTLY the same thing this ex did when we first started "dating"...even down to calling me baby BEFORE even our first date and then apologising like 50 million times afterwards for the SAME reason, "sorry, but to me that's who you already are..."
i know i shouldnt judge a new relationship on a past one because its not fair but this is too uncanny and i fear this guy is going to break my heart just like the last.
what should i do?
mabuttle - it would be easier not to judge it according to my last if he didnt do the exact same things!
read the question before you answer please.