Is he testing me or is he really doing this?

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Me and this guy like each other. He just got out of a 3 year relationship about 5 months ago and has tried seeing other girls between meeting me and breaking up with her. He took some time to think about "us" and I think he may be scared to get into another serious relationship. Hes been seeming kind of distant, but still says he likes me. Do you think he might be pushing me away in a sense just to see how much I like him or how serious I am? Like, he doesn't want to get into a relationship where the girl isn't totally committed. This guy thinks about all this stuff I would say more than I do. Do you think that could be it?
I have talked to him about it and he just said he needed time to think which I gave him. Plus... I cant play hard to get with him in talking to other guys because he gets WAY jealous. Like, it makes me feel bad. So I just dont.
 
if hes interested in u and has thought about the relationship,
then there no other answer.. jus flirt with him and do stuff with him alot.
but dont get so in front of hes face, what i mean by that is play hard
let him see u with other guys too so he can be jealous
 
Guys are funny this way. The ones who don't want to play games seem play this kind of game. I would just ask him straight out and tell him that you aren't going to mess with him. You're serious. Let him know.
 
I don't think so.

Believe it or not, guys are pretty simple to understand.

If he says he likes you, but he's just a bit distant, then he's maybe only just starting to feel ready/contemplating getting into a relationship again.

If you really have to, just talk to him about it. But don't start talking about what you think you think he's thinking etc. That all just annoys us guys.

Just keep it straight and simple.
 
im in the same situation!! i seem to think mine is still in love with his ex but wants to move on at the same time and is just really confused, at the same time i dont want to be his rebound
 
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