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So there is this guy i like that is 2 years older than me ( he`s 18 ).
We used to chill all the time because he lives around my friends house. I`ve known him since grade nine and i`m in grade ten now, but i`ve never really been interested because he is kind of a player, or should i say i want to be player.
So we used to chill all the time and he would do things like talk to other girls on the phone right in front of me if they called and stuff, and if it got me annoyed all i would have to do would be tell him once and he would start to change right away and from that point on never do it again. I figured the only reason why he was doing these things was because i was kind of acting like i didn`t like him, but that was only because i didn`t want to get my emotions involved and end up getting hurt.
i know that he likes me because, he came all the way from the city which is about 30 mins taking car from my suburban area to my party. he already knows that parties in the subhurbs are way different than parties in the city and it probably wouldn`t be that good. he also begged his friends to get a car so he could come and wouldn`t have to leave early because busses stop early by me, and when he did come and the jam wasn't good, was begging his friends to stay til the end. while at my party he asked me to dance with him and i said i don`t dance and told him to go dance with some one else he refused to and sat by me the whole night.
Another reason i figured he likes me is because he always drops whatever he is doing in order to hang out with me. For instance, he was supposed to go somewhere with his friend, but he totally dropped that to spend the day with me. and i know that his friend was mad.
he also has another friend that is going out with one of my best friends and he tells that friend things and he tells my girl then she tells mee.
she told me that this guy has told her boyfriend a few times that he likes me, but that he doesn`t like the fact that i think he`s stupid because he`s smart when it comes to girls and that he knows i want him more than i act like it when the only reason he thinks tht i think he`s stupid is because my friend took it upon herself to talk to him about mee but he thinks that i told her to talk to him.
i really do but i wouldn`t tell him that because of the cocky type of person he is. when i do try to be real with him he plays stupid games.
for example he always tells me how i`m too young, but if i was his age or he was mine, i would already be his girl.
but when i told him last weekend that i liked him and i wanted to know whats good, he told me that i`m too young. when i asked him why he said that he replied " i don`t know, when other girls your age try and talk to me i don`t say that, only to you but its because your different". yet, he dosen`t know what kind of different i am?
He then tells me that he thinks i can`t handle being in a relationship with him. when i ask him if that means i should just leave it where it is he says , " :Sbut who says you can`t change my mind".
I tell guys what he said and they claim that he is playing hard to get and that i should just wait for him to message me, but i don`t think thats what it is. I don`t know if i should play around too or try another way or what.
How am i supposed to know if it is even worth it ?
Can someone tell me what he`s doing ?
*GUYS HELP MEE OUT TOO !
We used to chill all the time because he lives around my friends house. I`ve known him since grade nine and i`m in grade ten now, but i`ve never really been interested because he is kind of a player, or should i say i want to be player.
So we used to chill all the time and he would do things like talk to other girls on the phone right in front of me if they called and stuff, and if it got me annoyed all i would have to do would be tell him once and he would start to change right away and from that point on never do it again. I figured the only reason why he was doing these things was because i was kind of acting like i didn`t like him, but that was only because i didn`t want to get my emotions involved and end up getting hurt.
i know that he likes me because, he came all the way from the city which is about 30 mins taking car from my suburban area to my party. he already knows that parties in the subhurbs are way different than parties in the city and it probably wouldn`t be that good. he also begged his friends to get a car so he could come and wouldn`t have to leave early because busses stop early by me, and when he did come and the jam wasn't good, was begging his friends to stay til the end. while at my party he asked me to dance with him and i said i don`t dance and told him to go dance with some one else he refused to and sat by me the whole night.
Another reason i figured he likes me is because he always drops whatever he is doing in order to hang out with me. For instance, he was supposed to go somewhere with his friend, but he totally dropped that to spend the day with me. and i know that his friend was mad.
he also has another friend that is going out with one of my best friends and he tells that friend things and he tells my girl then she tells mee.
she told me that this guy has told her boyfriend a few times that he likes me, but that he doesn`t like the fact that i think he`s stupid because he`s smart when it comes to girls and that he knows i want him more than i act like it when the only reason he thinks tht i think he`s stupid is because my friend took it upon herself to talk to him about mee but he thinks that i told her to talk to him.
i really do but i wouldn`t tell him that because of the cocky type of person he is. when i do try to be real with him he plays stupid games.
for example he always tells me how i`m too young, but if i was his age or he was mine, i would already be his girl.
but when i told him last weekend that i liked him and i wanted to know whats good, he told me that i`m too young. when i asked him why he said that he replied " i don`t know, when other girls your age try and talk to me i don`t say that, only to you but its because your different". yet, he dosen`t know what kind of different i am?
He then tells me that he thinks i can`t handle being in a relationship with him. when i ask him if that means i should just leave it where it is he says , " :Sbut who says you can`t change my mind".
I tell guys what he said and they claim that he is playing hard to get and that i should just wait for him to message me, but i don`t think thats what it is. I don`t know if i should play around too or try another way or what.
How am i supposed to know if it is even worth it ?
Can someone tell me what he`s doing ?
*GUYS HELP MEE OUT TOO !