is he racist? how do i discuss it without makin it an argument?....(10 points)?

becca

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where i live we get a lot of foreign students an (by pure coincidence) iv only ever had boyfriends from N africa an from S america,
im carribean mixed race an i started dating this white boy an i really like him
but sometimes he says the freakiest stupidest things like "i love how black peoples hair is so big an fluffy" and he puts a ridiculus accent an says "im'a bust a cap in his ass".
im mixed race but he told me he refuses to call me mixed he says that anyone darker then himself he considers to be black...his friends are like this to, when someone told him my ex boyfriend from Algeria was coming back to England, he said that my ex probly was a murderer an probly has aids!!!
other then the ignorant side to him hes really nice, i dont want to introduce him to my family cause im scared hes gonna embarrass himself
i dont know what to do i really like him should i leave him, hes the same age as me (16) i usually go out with boys just a few years older do u think its just teenage boy ignorance or because hes only ever lived in this town? should i say something? i really dont know how to intervene when he starts waffling on like an idiot,
thing is i do like him an i dont want him to think im shouting, i dont know what to say or how to say it iv met ignorant ppl before but in the past discussions about this always end in arguments, this is a boy that i really dont want to push away from me
realy u think i should leave him? :(
 
This boy is beyond ignorant. Don't stay with someone like that, when in the end all he is doing is belittling you and people around you. How can any person think just because someone isn't "white" that they all should be crammed into one group? There are many races in this world, all different and lovely. Dump him. You should never be with someone that you are afraid to bring around your family.
 
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