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Jen L
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I was hanging out with this guy as friends for a month and a half. He was always really nice to me and really flirty. Always telling me I'm pretty etc... I did tell him that I just wanted to b friends from the beginning since at the time I had just broken up with someone but developed feelings as time went on. We usually hung out at this party every other weekend since his cousin is the DJ there. We spent most of the night together dancing with the exception of the few times I talked to other guys and got their numbers. I was open about it and he got jealous when I talked to anyone else. He's also a trainer so I've also worked out with him a few times as well. The problem now is the last time we hung out I noticed he smoked pot. I dont feel comfortable with pot and said something about it once it was just me and him. During the conversation I also mentioned that I liked him and wanted to get to know him better but the pot could be a concern. After that I didn't hear from him anymore. I let a month go by and sent him a text asking if he'd like to join me and some friends for drinks at a bar and that I missed hanging with him. He wrote back and said he'd be moving over to Seattle to go to school during the summer and we should get together and that he's filling out paper work. I wished him luck. About 4 days later he txts to ask what I'm up to. I responded the next morning n said i was with my family in ca. Later that day he txts and asks what im doing that nite. I said i was tired from my flight and was gonna stay home. We chatted a lil more then he asks if I find him physically attractive. He then said " i like you" In response to his question I told him I always liked hanging with him and had fun whenever we were together then mentioned that I liked him as well but let it go since he disappeared. I didn't hear back from him. This was 2 days ago. Why would he ask then not respond back? Is he thinking things through?