Info:
For 2 quarters a classmate has:
-been the sweetest, most helpful guy,
-puts himself way out to make sure I'm taken care of.
-laughs at all my jokes,
-talks to me differently than others,
-tries to make me feel better when I'm down,
-sits so close our legs touch,
-noticed when I change something about myself,
-noticed little things about me(drinks I bring, accessories etc.)or things I do,
-tried to impress me.
-got jealous
-he's always apologizing for dumb stuff.
-great body language
-indirectly he's said he likes me.
-calls be hon
-texts me when with his friends-even the Superbowl
-hugs
Problem:
I asked why he doesn't ask me out. He said we should go out once his life slows a bit: 3 jobs + 3 mortgages + school + family problems + money problems. Recently he's said he has free time. I asked Friday if he wanted to hang out Sunday, as I was unusually free.
Plan: at 2 walk around a Lake with his Puppy, get coffee. I thought this was a date.
2 passed. I heard nothing until I texted him if he was ok. He said he'd been up drinking until 4, felt like death.
I explained it hurt/ disappointed/angered me, how much effort I had to put into making it happen (I mean getting ready etc.)
Angrily he said,
not to talk to him like that, didn't deserve it, didn't know what my intentions were, but thought that getting coffee as friends, I had said I was already taking a break and wanted to hang out, sorry(in-genuinely) for 'ruining my day'.
I replied,
I thought it was a date, didn't know why he acts the way he does if he's not interested.
I apologized today, and he did too for snapping at me. Saying that he's still trying to get used to this new lifestyle and it's getting to him.
He apologized again saying," it is what it is like I said I apologize for the way I acted anyone as sick as I was would've been the same way. I'm sorry if I offended you it wasn't my intention."
Now what, I'm embarrassed?
For 2 quarters a classmate has:
-been the sweetest, most helpful guy,
-puts himself way out to make sure I'm taken care of.
-laughs at all my jokes,
-talks to me differently than others,
-tries to make me feel better when I'm down,
-sits so close our legs touch,
-noticed when I change something about myself,
-noticed little things about me(drinks I bring, accessories etc.)or things I do,
-tried to impress me.
-got jealous
-he's always apologizing for dumb stuff.
-great body language
-indirectly he's said he likes me.
-calls be hon
-texts me when with his friends-even the Superbowl
-hugs
Problem:
I asked why he doesn't ask me out. He said we should go out once his life slows a bit: 3 jobs + 3 mortgages + school + family problems + money problems. Recently he's said he has free time. I asked Friday if he wanted to hang out Sunday, as I was unusually free.
Plan: at 2 walk around a Lake with his Puppy, get coffee. I thought this was a date.
2 passed. I heard nothing until I texted him if he was ok. He said he'd been up drinking until 4, felt like death.
I explained it hurt/ disappointed/angered me, how much effort I had to put into making it happen (I mean getting ready etc.)
Angrily he said,
not to talk to him like that, didn't deserve it, didn't know what my intentions were, but thought that getting coffee as friends, I had said I was already taking a break and wanted to hang out, sorry(in-genuinely) for 'ruining my day'.
I replied,
I thought it was a date, didn't know why he acts the way he does if he's not interested.
I apologized today, and he did too for snapping at me. Saying that he's still trying to get used to this new lifestyle and it's getting to him.
He apologized again saying," it is what it is like I said I apologize for the way I acted anyone as sick as I was would've been the same way. I'm sorry if I offended you it wasn't my intention."
Now what, I'm embarrassed?