I have known this guy for three years. We are co-workers. We weren't friends just always talked if we were in the mailroom or elevator together. A year ago he spilled his guts about his marriage falling apart. We became friends and I gave him advice. He decided it was time for a divorce. I supported his choice even though I don't like the idea of divorce and he knew it.
As the paper work started and his wife suggested we date.
We now have been dating for 6 months and are crazy in love. The only problem; as the divorce was getting close to signing his wife did some drastic behaviors to which he has caved to agree to try couples therapy as a last ditch effort and more for his son's sake than anything else. I worry they will work it out and I will be left out.
To make things harder I am pregnant and I am keeping the baby. I am having increasing jealousy towards his wife and keep thinking he is going to leave us for his wife and 1st kid because he dragging his feet so much. I also never was a fan of the wife because of the way she treated their child and him so I worry that she is manipulating him and I am even more concerned about his child's safety and well being.
He has been there for everything and is so supportive and good to me that even thinking this I feel crazy. I am not sure if my insecurities are just highlighted by an increase of hormones or if I am right that he is going to leave me.
Does it sound like he is going to leave me? I'm tired of our relationship status being in limbo. Should I just call it quits and break both of our hearts now? Or do I wait it out/hope for the best and take IF he leaves me then deal with just that much more emotional pain?
As the paper work started and his wife suggested we date.
We now have been dating for 6 months and are crazy in love. The only problem; as the divorce was getting close to signing his wife did some drastic behaviors to which he has caved to agree to try couples therapy as a last ditch effort and more for his son's sake than anything else. I worry they will work it out and I will be left out.
To make things harder I am pregnant and I am keeping the baby. I am having increasing jealousy towards his wife and keep thinking he is going to leave us for his wife and 1st kid because he dragging his feet so much. I also never was a fan of the wife because of the way she treated their child and him so I worry that she is manipulating him and I am even more concerned about his child's safety and well being.
He has been there for everything and is so supportive and good to me that even thinking this I feel crazy. I am not sure if my insecurities are just highlighted by an increase of hormones or if I am right that he is going to leave me.
Does it sound like he is going to leave me? I'm tired of our relationship status being in limbo. Should I just call it quits and break both of our hearts now? Or do I wait it out/hope for the best and take IF he leaves me then deal with just that much more emotional pain?