IS HE BEING FLAKY? WHAT DO I DO?

dee

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The other day the guy I am seeing said "I'll come by this weekend." I didn't bother asking him what day, but now I'm starting to overanalyze it. He has yet to tell me when, so does that mean he figures I have nothing better to do and will just show up? Is he thinking I'll be available whenever?

I'm too shy/old fashioned to ask him when he plans on coming, so I'm probably over-reacting, but he does this all the time. He's terrible at planning and it makes me feel like he remembers about me when he doesn't have anything else to do, which is what I think will happen this weekend, he'll just show up when he has the time.

When he does ask to come over, should I reject him?

Like I said, I'm probably being nuts, but this is a pattern.
 
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