Is he being fair? Serious answers only!!!?

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Tell him how you feel! He's your husband. He should be about making you feel good as well. It shouldn't be one sided. He should WANT to make love to his wife and do thinks to her.Stop giving him oral. Make him come to you =)
 
Have been there, done that. My estranged spouse wanted oral, but didn't want to do it to me. I managed to get someone who did and liked giving it too. Then one night my estranged spouse tried it, and it just felt creepy. I understand that you have a high sex drive and willing to do anything when he gets home. Have you sat down and discussed this with him? I would tell him, "I am not satisfied, and you don't want to give oral, but want to GET oral." If you can't give it to me, you won't get it either!" Some men, as a rule, do not give it because they don't know how. I suggest maybe if you find one of your girlfriends and the two of you have a threesome, maybe with the right encouragement, he might come around.
 
This is so common, my husband sometimes falls into this, and I just have to remind him that I have needs as well!!!
 
That isnt too fair, you should tell him that you get it first then you can please him last.
 
Its not fair. Leave him alone wen he is tired and get ready to share bed when both of you are active.
 
well, maybe he's just not as horney as you are. That's not wrong. IF you want to give it and he's not in the mood, do you expect him to say no? IF he's not in the mood and you want to give it, then give it and don't expect anything in return. If he's asking for lovin' then he'd better give some back, but if he'd just as soon not do it and you still want to give then it's your gift. He doesn't owe anything in return.
 
of course it isn't fair. get a jackrabbit. they work really well! they are also inexpensive.
 
Nothing is fair in life take my wife for instance she can't spread her legs for even 5 minutes and i think it's unfair but who cares but me so i will tell you what the women here tell me and that is just be happy with what you do get of course i don't take their advice i found a mistress..Good luck it's only going to get worse you are married to a selfish person like i'am
 
You should be able to talk to him about this. Tell him how you feel.After all, sex is supposed to be fun for both people involved in it.I don't think his attitude is "fair"...but then again, if you two love each other and can communicate, it shouldn't be a problem. Sometimes men do a lot of work when it is their chance to please us; and we don't always end up having an orgasm...no matter how hard they try!
 
There's a difference between "willing to" and "expects it".If he expects oral from you without being willing to reciprocate, that's unfair.If he's willing to let you do whatever you want to him, that's fair because you control the situation and are free to do as you wish. Including not giving him any. I'm not saying it's not an issue! But it's not unfair.
 
I have never, not once ever, had a work experience that left me too tired for sex at night. I don't always want sex, but it ain't because of the oh-so-stressful workweek.The next time we wants some oral satisfaction, take his pants off but only take his shirt halfway off so his arms are stuck behind him. Climb on top and ride him. Stand up, grab his hair, and press his mouth where you want it.If he gets his arms loose, stop.
 
Have you broached the subject with him? Maybe he isn't aware there is a problem. Some men are so short-sighted, it's not even funny. Tell him how you feel before the resentment gets the better of you.
 
I never had oral sex from a woman and I can't understand why a man wouldn't want to give it to a clean healthy woman. I can understand why women might be hesitant to do it with a man. After having lived a long time I have never had woman give me oral sex don't know what it's like but I wouldn't hesitate to participate.
 
Sweet baby, there are MILLIONS of men in this world that would lean you back and stay down there until you were exhausted from shuddering "O"s. Find a man who makes you hot, get to the nearest cheap hotel, lay back and get what you need. Then, when your husband whines "I don't WANT to" just smile and say, "That's okay, baby ...I'm good."
 
No thats not fair. If he wants it he needs to give AND take. Fortunately Im not in that situation.
 
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