Is he being fair? Serious answers only!!!?

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I guess you can say I have a high sex drive and willing to do anything when husband gets home. I understand that sometimes he is overwhelmed and I need to leave him alone. However he is always willing to GET oral. Is that fair? I don't get what I want but he does?Is anyone in this situation? SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE.
 
yes it is selfish. It's nothing wrong with giving, but you need to receive too. Men can be very selfish sometimes we just have to tell them like it is.
 
if your not getting what you want do give him what he wants. when he asks or looks at you like well are you going to. tell him your no longer in the mood. you used something else {toy} lol
 
He may be always willing to get it, but you don't have to be always willing to give it. Just as he's not always willing to give you what you want. Sounds like a fair deal to me.
 
if its working for you guys who cares if its fair, since when were relationships based on fairness?!, if your not getting what you need tho then you guys need to communicate better and find some middle ground.
 
i am not having this problem now but i have with an ex. what i did was told him if he wants head then give me some first or have sex with me first and then if u cant finish without head i will give it to u after i get mine. it worked for me then.
 
NO thats not fair...if you give him oral, you should be getting some in return...so, stop giving him oral..see how he likes it.
 
Hell ya!!!! I'm in that situation, it's always what he wants & not what I want. I even have told him when it's my turn in what I want!
 
It all depends on how much you like giving it to him. Sometimes that is how it is with my husband and I too and I like pleasuring him even if I don't get pleasured by him at that moment because I always know that I will get mine soon enough. :o)
 
All I have to say is WOW. No disrespect, but he's crazy! I get just about as much out of taking care of her needs as I do my own. Wow! (ok, I said that already)
 
Of course that's not fair. And you shouldn't be willing to GIVE oral at that point. Tease him..when he's stressed out, ask him if he wants a BJ or start undoing his pants as if you were to give him oral. And then stop and tell him that he if wants a little he's going to have to give a little.
 
That's when you real say you care. Some when ladies simply don't give a hoot.He's lucky to have you.
 
I think it is his way of saying "If you want to please me after a hard day, fine... but if you expect me to come home and please you... forget about it, I'm tired..."Capiche?
 
One thing I can think of is during the oral you have to do most of the work, but during the regular does he have to do most of the work?? Perhaps, that's why. If you can convince him to try some different positions that woman does most of the work, everything should work out fine.
 
stop giving oral and only do what you can to make sure you both receive.
 
Well i don't think it's fair but i don't know any real men who would turn down oral so maybe you should start it off that way then work your way in to the 69 position, i love to have it shoved in my face and ordered to eat it.
 
i guess you want recipication more than you want to please him ...so dont take it personal cuz that's not wut he's feelin at the time ...it's kinda fair cuz you initiated it , but if he did and left you w/ the shorter end of the stick it would be another story ....it is fair but yes it does suck....lol!! no punn intended
 
If you feel it's unfair, then don't do it until you feel he's satisfied you as well. Sometimes both parties don't have to get what they want, but if one is getting what they desire a lot more often than the other, it's time to sit down and talk about the issue.You can always decline to give him oral until he's satisfied you properly. The expeirence is supposed to be fun for all parties involved after all.
 
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