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...girlfriend is pregnant cheating? I just found some emails from my boyfriend to an old friend (more then a friend they had a sexual relationship) They were pretty explicit and talked about wanting to send each other video's and pictures and talking about being naughty and maybe trying to meet up. He says they never did meet up and it was all talk. He lied about talking to her until I found the messages now he says nothing happened but I can't believe that. He tried to delete them all and gave me his password and even told me I needed to apologize for not trusting him. Personally I feel it is cheating, and I think he is especially low for doing this to me when I am 5 months pregnant with his baby.

Is it cheating?

Should I forgive him?

Should I believe they never actually met up?
They were sleeping together when we were broken up about 2 and half years ago. We have been together for over 7 yrs total.
 
it is not cheating but i wouldnt let her find out she will go mad and she will kick off even more because she is pregnant and never act on the emails either it would be the end of ya's.
 
The guy is like a snake it will look you in to your eyes like it's not going to hurt and than wham he strikes
 
I see that as cheating yes, especially as they were planning on meeting up. They were obviously going to do sexual things if they did.
It's up to you if you forgive him, think of your child too. If they didn't actually meet up then i would forgive him. You need him to be by your side and supporting you right now as you're going through a very emotional experience.
Make sure he's generally sorry before you begin to forgive him. And maybe keep his password in a safe place so that you can check to see what he's up to.
I hope you sort things out, do what your head says not your heart :)
 
Yes it's cheating. Just because they never actually hooked up just the fact that they were talking about sex and eluding to it it's another form of cheating. Just imagine how he would feel if the tables were turned. If you were flirting with a guy thru emails would you feel like you were cheating?? Yes.
 
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