Is confessing to my straight friend the right thing to do...?

romantichild

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I have a friend who I started had feelings with lately it just became intensified. Overtime he started noticing I have feelings for him because I started acting out my feelings for him, I could'nt stop it any longer. Examples are I started giving him longer eye contact when we meet. Beocming nicer to all the good things he does for me etc. I know he knows about my feelings for him but I was wondering...

will being honest with him eliminate this awkwardness between us? I feel like were drifitng apart because I am not being honest with him. But the only reason Im not being honest with him is because Im afraid that I'd lose him. And from hereon I realised that my trust in his reactions is very low. Perhaps because Im afraid to be hurt.

But I cant take it anymore, I think I should confess. Not saying anything is making things worse, I think if I confessed I will be able to restore our friendship. Please give me some advices oin how to confess to him. I want to tell him everything but I also wanna make sure that this wont completely destory our friendship. I want him to know that I can accept that we cant be together but I wont be able to accept the fact that our friendship has faded because of my feelings for him...
 
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