Is 16 men in 6 months too many sex partners for a woman?

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This is about 6 months BEFORE my GF and I became involved:

1. Her then steady BF
2. Her "friend with benefits" whom she saw twice a month
3. A man she refers to as her "f*ckbuddy" whom she saw once a month
4. Her friend with benefits roommate
5. THREE co-workers
6.One night stand with a man she met at a bar
7. One night stand in Vegas
8. Her sister's husband
9. Got drunk and spent the night at a friend's house and slept with him then blamed it "on the alcohol" and said she wasn't even "attracted to him".
10. An 8 month sexual relationship with a man.
11. A 3 month sexual relationship with another man.
12. A 2 month sexual relationship with yet another man.
13. One night stand with a man she met on Myspace.
14. A man she met at a house party.

^^^ These are the SIXTEEN men she slept with in the few months before she and I became involved.

During any given month, she was regularly having sex with at least 4 men and sometimes, up to as many as 9 men.

She claims to be "a very sexual person." BUT I think that her behavior stems from:

1. Her parents' neglect.
2. Her parents' were both drug addicts who had her as teenagers and later, both committed suicide while on drugs.
3. One of her mom's many BFs MAY have molested her.
 
I agree with your diagnosis. Physical and sexual abuse has a tendency cause compulsive sexual behavior later in life.

I knew a girl who had had sex with 26 guys by the time she was 19. She had been raped and molested by several of her mom's boyfriends.
 
well try to b as nice as you can... I know a lot of people that went through some of that in the life and its hard to pass by I know it seems like she is a slut or something but just think if you were walking in her shoes.... that's a hard thing to let go and just comfort her and be by her as much as you can (not all over her!) just make her feel like nobodys gonna hurt her and you will always stand by her in her time of need and say she doesn't need anyone but you in her life and just spend a lot of time with her and see how that goes! i hope everything works out for you!!
 
Did you sleep with her? then hurry to the doctor to check for STD. that is most what i would be worrying about . beside worrying about her habit that could kick in anytime unless she really cling for change
 
Well it's not too many for a s l u t, but it is for a woman.
Tell her to try to keep her clothes on.
 
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