As I mention in my previous questions, I feel that my wife loves me, but is not in love with me. We have been together for almost 8 years, in the beginning sex was great, now is like 4 times a year. She thinks sex is not important part of a relationship ( we are still young ). I still look the same as when we met, nothing has really change.
We get along, on her days off she wants to be with me, she loves to spend time with me, she loves to take care of me. She always tells me that she loves me, kisses me, hugs me, etc. But when is things get a little intimate, is like a wall goes up, she stops and tells me that she is not in the mood. I have try everything! and when I mean everything, I mean everything!!!! (taking her out, getaway vacations, surprises, gifts, talking to her, etc)
She says she does not have a sex drive, but she finds me very sexually attractive. I dont understand? Also; if we are watching a movie and there is a hot guy, she gets all exited, and starts smiling (I know this because my parents notice it, they are the ones that told me). maybe she does not have a sex drive for me.
Something that also strikes me, is that if I tell her that I just want to pleasure her, she replies, "no"....when I ask her, what do you like, she says "Nothing" , I been with her for 8 years and and I dont know what she likes sexually. She always says she does not know (how can you not know your own body??!!)
With all my previous girlfriends, within a month, I knew every little sexual thing they like, turn on and turn offs.
I love my wife, but this is hurting me, she knows I will do anything to make it happen, she will not work on her part.
We get along, on her days off she wants to be with me, she loves to spend time with me, she loves to take care of me. She always tells me that she loves me, kisses me, hugs me, etc. But when is things get a little intimate, is like a wall goes up, she stops and tells me that she is not in the mood. I have try everything! and when I mean everything, I mean everything!!!! (taking her out, getaway vacations, surprises, gifts, talking to her, etc)
She says she does not have a sex drive, but she finds me very sexually attractive. I dont understand? Also; if we are watching a movie and there is a hot guy, she gets all exited, and starts smiling (I know this because my parents notice it, they are the ones that told me). maybe she does not have a sex drive for me.
Something that also strikes me, is that if I tell her that I just want to pleasure her, she replies, "no"....when I ask her, what do you like, she says "Nothing" , I been with her for 8 years and and I dont know what she likes sexually. She always says she does not know (how can you not know your own body??!!)
With all my previous girlfriends, within a month, I knew every little sexual thing they like, turn on and turn offs.
I love my wife, but this is hurting me, she knows I will do anything to make it happen, she will not work on her part.