Here's the situation. A man and a woman are happily married and have been for more than 5 years. They have occasional fights and disagreements, like any couple, but they are both still very much in love. Their relationship is great except for sex. They're both very attracted to each other, but one has a much lower sex drive than the other. While one is interested 2 or 3 times a month the other would prefer 2 or 3 times a week (or more).
So here come the questions, and I'd really like to get both perspectives.
How often is it fair for the one with the higher sex drive to expect the other to meet their needs considering that the act is not mutually beneficial or equally satisfying?
How often is it fair for the one with the lower sex drive to decline the advances of the other?
So here come the questions, and I'd really like to get both perspectives.
How often is it fair for the one with the higher sex drive to expect the other to meet their needs considering that the act is not mutually beneficial or equally satisfying?
How often is it fair for the one with the lower sex drive to decline the advances of the other?