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beautiam2007
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I am 38, my fiance is 40. We have been together for 7 years. I have 3 children from previous marriage that live with us, he has two that live with their mother. We have a wedding date set for next month. We both lost jobs last year about this time and I moved in with my parents for a few months till I could find work and a more affordable place to live. He moved in with his parents. Prior to the job loss, he treated me like a queen. He loves me I know he does, but I didn't have a desire to have sex, ever. Suffering pts from a very horrible experience in our lives. I since realized what my problem was, got help and am back to normal now. In December we found a place to live, all moved back in together, planning wedding on a budget, finances are hard right now.But since we have been here, he has not "really" kissed me once. No more than a peck on the cheek. Sex is once per week, if that. He has gained 40lbs since we got together 7 years ago, still looks great, I have gained, 40lbs. also. I don't think I look that bad though. He tells me he loves me, I Iook good, he is just not in the mood.Tried sexual movies, that works, when he feels like watching one. I know he's not gay, not cheating, not taking care of himself, so does anyone have any thoughts on the subject? Any suggestions, i'm afraid to go thru with wedding at this point. Feeling so lonely and unsure of everything.Serious answers only please.