Intimacy frequency question for couples...?

Bob

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Been together 12 years, we both had same libido in beginning. After kids and health issues the wife fell off some so it has become a bone of contention. She wants to be romanced and turned on before sex most of the time and he wants it more frequently. So she is in the mood about 4 days a week give or take. He wants it 3 or 4 times a day and enthusiastically too. Even in the beginning we never were intimate more than 2 times a day except on rare occasions so this new number gap is trumping us up. How to bridge the gap between 4 times a week and 21 times a week. Willing to work a this but are there any suggestions on how to figure an amount that might be a compromise for us? I have only been with one long term partner so I am not sure what is normal for other couples, please help.
Victor sorry about your wife but I actually do love mine and she is a great housekepper, cook and mother and she does rock my world and pick up my penis, lol, just not often enough. Thanks for the useful suggestions, women are so confusing.
 
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