I'm 29 weeks pregnant right now. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 24. I'm in college and he's a musician. I got pregnant and I wasn't happy but I decided to keep the baby because I was too scared to have an abortion. We have been together soon 2 years. My boyfriend was happy because he always wanted a family. The problem is that I'm biracial ( black and white) and he's white and I don't trust white men based on experience. I don't really want to marry him but I will since he's the father of my son. We live together and I'm soon finishing college and I work part time, he's a musician and that bothers me becuase he gets a few gigs here and there but it's not enough and he needs a proper job but he takes it so seriously.
This will be his parents first grandchild so they have been very helpful, they have basically bought as everything for the baby like the crib, clothes, and everything.
It was his idea for us to get married because it would be the right thing to do. He bought me a ring last week so I guess we're engaged. He wants us to get married before the baby is born becuase of all the legal stuff. But I don't I want a proper wedding and I don't want to be highly pregnant and huge when I get married specially on the wedding night... We struggle with money so his parents helps us out. The reason that I'm marrying him is because I can't be a single mom my mom was one and it's something I couldn't handle and every child deserves and needs two parents. And we have already started planning for our sons future and my bf is very supportive with appointments and everything.
We haven't really been intimate during my pregnancy because it feels like it isn't right since there's a baby in there. It's not like we can do it all day long like before. And he doesn't want sex as much as before because I guess that I'm huge and un attractive but still he complains that he's not getting any is that wrong?
My boyfriend really wants us to get married now and have a small wedding but I want a proper one and thinks that I'm being selfish, am I? What should I do?
This will be his parents first grandchild so they have been very helpful, they have basically bought as everything for the baby like the crib, clothes, and everything.
It was his idea for us to get married because it would be the right thing to do. He bought me a ring last week so I guess we're engaged. He wants us to get married before the baby is born becuase of all the legal stuff. But I don't I want a proper wedding and I don't want to be highly pregnant and huge when I get married specially on the wedding night... We struggle with money so his parents helps us out. The reason that I'm marrying him is because I can't be a single mom my mom was one and it's something I couldn't handle and every child deserves and needs two parents. And we have already started planning for our sons future and my bf is very supportive with appointments and everything.
We haven't really been intimate during my pregnancy because it feels like it isn't right since there's a baby in there. It's not like we can do it all day long like before. And he doesn't want sex as much as before because I guess that I'm huge and un attractive but still he complains that he's not getting any is that wrong?
My boyfriend really wants us to get married now and have a small wedding but I want a proper one and thinks that I'm being selfish, am I? What should I do?