Pretty Penny
New member
Hoping for more input this time:
I apologize in advance if this question is offensive:
Also, I recognize some people think/feel bottom love is gay. We can all agree some people believe this to be the case, no need to include it in your answer.
Last night after my husband and I went to bed I was thinking that, though we frequently are intimate (on average 4 times per week, I would say; of the 8 times we are intimate in a two week period he will want to finish up our intimacy in the back at least 3 of those times). Is this normal, because it's kind of taboo and forbidden and thus a turn on, or should I be worried and start using Ben Wa balls to work up some more strength? (I have been using the Lelo version of ben wa-- the luna balls, but am concerned that they are not doing any good beause I don't feel like I have to work to keep them in, but I need smaller & heavier ones or does anyone know is this normal and I'm exercising those muscles without knowing it?)
We have been married about 10 years and have 2 kids (I am not pregnant now so no, it's not like he's afraid to poke a baby in the eye) , so maybe normal intercourse doesn't feel as good as it used to? Did your wife feel different after babies or am I just worrying over nothing? He never has any problem finishing with the standard port of entry-- just wondering on my part since the new (within last 3 months I have allowed this more than once a year) addition to our repertoire is so popular.
I could be just feeling insecure, maybe?
thanks ckitty-- not that I don't like it, I'm fine with it. Just curious if he's satisfied with the other and too shy to ask
New question re: one of the answer:. Does anyone know why gay men would be able to answer a question about a va jay jay? That seems an odd instruction to me, but perhaps I don't really know what "gay" means after all.
I apologize in advance if this question is offensive:
Also, I recognize some people think/feel bottom love is gay. We can all agree some people believe this to be the case, no need to include it in your answer.
Last night after my husband and I went to bed I was thinking that, though we frequently are intimate (on average 4 times per week, I would say; of the 8 times we are intimate in a two week period he will want to finish up our intimacy in the back at least 3 of those times). Is this normal, because it's kind of taboo and forbidden and thus a turn on, or should I be worried and start using Ben Wa balls to work up some more strength? (I have been using the Lelo version of ben wa-- the luna balls, but am concerned that they are not doing any good beause I don't feel like I have to work to keep them in, but I need smaller & heavier ones or does anyone know is this normal and I'm exercising those muscles without knowing it?)
We have been married about 10 years and have 2 kids (I am not pregnant now so no, it's not like he's afraid to poke a baby in the eye) , so maybe normal intercourse doesn't feel as good as it used to? Did your wife feel different after babies or am I just worrying over nothing? He never has any problem finishing with the standard port of entry-- just wondering on my part since the new (within last 3 months I have allowed this more than once a year) addition to our repertoire is so popular.
I could be just feeling insecure, maybe?
thanks ckitty-- not that I don't like it, I'm fine with it. Just curious if he's satisfied with the other and too shy to ask
New question re: one of the answer:. Does anyone know why gay men would be able to answer a question about a va jay jay? That seems an odd instruction to me, but perhaps I don't really know what "gay" means after all.