take the buyout? Divorce now looking very likely. One decision is whether to get bought out or do the buying out. House estimate is $944k from Zillow, meaning we have $320k in equity. To buy the other out, one of us have to cough up the $160k share, which won't be easy but is doable. Basically, 1 of us will be cash-rich & homeless, while the other will be house-rich and vastly poorer. Thoughts?