I'm not sure ugly is the word, just really unattractive i guess.
http://brianneworth.deviantart.com/art/yahooanswersshit-190831974
there's the link, i'm the one that's the second from the left. there's another girl that looks similar to me, well i'm the one who isn't on the outside.
I don't really "Dress up" often, i don't wear make up, i don't get my hair cut with fringes and whatever the hell everyone does, i dress like a dag, mainly t-shirt and shorts 24/7, just because i like to wear comfortable clothing and i cannot stand to wear clothes that are uncomfortable for more than an hour. so basically, i could improve my looks but i'm not going to because that's just not natural for me, i'd be uncomfortable 24/7. i just want to know how to accept that i can't (or won't) change how i am, and how to be secure with what i've got? is there any way to do this?
I am seeing a therapist about other things, but she said part of my problem is a low self esteem disorder or some crap like that. i'm generally very introverted, i can't hold up a conversation, and always because i'm scared i'll make a complete dick out of myself if i open my mouth. i have friends and everything, i get along with some people, but i can only really hold up a conversation with close friends. in photos my eyes always make me look stoned or asian, and my gums always show when i smile, my eyes are black, all of my friends are pretty, i hate hate hate my legs and i got teased for being black when i was younger, i'm not actually black, mainly tan i guess.. but yeah there will be a photo somewhere anyway. so along with accepting my unattractiveness, how can i learn to talk to people, or be sociable at least?
http://brianneworth.deviantart.com/art/yahooanswersshit-190831974
there's the link, i'm the one that's the second from the left. there's another girl that looks similar to me, well i'm the one who isn't on the outside.
I don't really "Dress up" often, i don't wear make up, i don't get my hair cut with fringes and whatever the hell everyone does, i dress like a dag, mainly t-shirt and shorts 24/7, just because i like to wear comfortable clothing and i cannot stand to wear clothes that are uncomfortable for more than an hour. so basically, i could improve my looks but i'm not going to because that's just not natural for me, i'd be uncomfortable 24/7. i just want to know how to accept that i can't (or won't) change how i am, and how to be secure with what i've got? is there any way to do this?
I am seeing a therapist about other things, but she said part of my problem is a low self esteem disorder or some crap like that. i'm generally very introverted, i can't hold up a conversation, and always because i'm scared i'll make a complete dick out of myself if i open my mouth. i have friends and everything, i get along with some people, but i can only really hold up a conversation with close friends. in photos my eyes always make me look stoned or asian, and my gums always show when i smile, my eyes are black, all of my friends are pretty, i hate hate hate my legs and i got teased for being black when i was younger, i'm not actually black, mainly tan i guess.. but yeah there will be a photo somewhere anyway. so along with accepting my unattractiveness, how can i learn to talk to people, or be sociable at least?