My former FWB is being super irritating. First off it took me explaining to him 4 times over a period of almost two weeks exactly why I wouldn't be seeing him anymore, which had to do with his behavior. During that time (mid July) I ran into an old friend and I am now seeing him exclusively...and it's been that way since the second date. I've known the man since high school, spent 5 years as his neighbor and (because I'm also good friends with a cousin of his) hung out with him a lot over the years. We lost touch last year until running into each other in July.
The former FWB has been having people he and I hung out with call me, has texted "by accident" a few times, is telling people I don't even know the guy I'm seeing, and in general is being as big a nuisance as he can (driving by, that sort of thing) without actually speaking directly to me.
Besides calling him and confronting him on this (I don't want to, I'm happy and not wanting to feed his drama) is there some way to just shut him up?
Yes, Pearl, I know, Pearl...I totally agree I was wrong on that, lol. I'm kind of glad though because one thing that happened with him and the new boyfriend completely and totally showed me such a difference between their two "types" that it made a large difference in my life as a whole.
The former FWB has been having people he and I hung out with call me, has texted "by accident" a few times, is telling people I don't even know the guy I'm seeing, and in general is being as big a nuisance as he can (driving by, that sort of thing) without actually speaking directly to me.
Besides calling him and confronting him on this (I don't want to, I'm happy and not wanting to feed his drama) is there some way to just shut him up?
Yes, Pearl, I know, Pearl...I totally agree I was wrong on that, lol. I'm kind of glad though because one thing that happened with him and the new boyfriend completely and totally showed me such a difference between their two "types" that it made a large difference in my life as a whole.