I'm tired of being nice

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Lithium09xox

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Simply put, i agree with zoloftcasserole, fuck everyone who doesnt like you for you, why the hell should you waste your life on them unless theyre putting out, even then it might not be worth it. if you dont like the person even at a glance be an asshole, if you like them at a glance, be nice till they try to take advantage of that, if they take advantage of that, then be an asshole! Fuck everyone
 
I agree with unforgivens feelings about the pricks getting it all . I also agree with zolofts assertion that fuck everyone that doesn't like you for who you are . The thread seem to unanimous in the idea that be who you are . You are the one that has to look at yourself everyday . The world seems to be getting more and more selfish with each day so at some point being nice of kind will help something or someone and that will be good . Won't it ?

I would love to hear a woman explain the asshole attraction question . All I get is to hear the complaining about assholes and then the lets just be friends speech before they go for another asshole .
 
I think we need to stop and define "being nice". Because some of the advice posted here is just plain wrong. Being a dick to people only makes you self centered... and there are enough self centered fucks in this world as it is.

Being Nice:
Holding a door open for someone.
Picking up a friend who's too drunk to drive home
Helping a pal move when they off to buy beer and pizza when it's done.
Helping a little old lady get the can off the highest shelf at the grocery store as you walk by.

Being a doormat:
Rushing over to hold a door open every time someone walks up to it.
Picking up a friend who's ALWAYS too drunk to drive home and never says thanks.
Helping someone move even though you already had plans just because they assumed you would.

Being a dick:
Closing a door in someone's face.
Always needing a ride.
Never being willing to help anyone and assuming they'll always help you.

Don't be a dick. Be a nice but don't be a doormat.
 
being nice is a good thing but you have to make sure you dont deny yourself of anything to please someone. there are situations in life where you have to make things happen instead of waiting for them to happen. you can still be very pleasent to people while geting what ever you have your mind set on no matter the problem. and if someone is still an ass after your nice , kickem' in the balls, that allways works
 
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