ParadoxZero
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I broke up with my ex 2 years ago, just before our 3 years together. there were multiple reasons, which you probably don't want to know the details of so i'll keep things as brief as a can.
we did have a good relationship, but lots of little things piled up and i decided to end it then knowing it'd keep getting harder to continue the relationship, and also if i delayed breaking up that too would become harder. she'd joined a co-ed frat, i decided not to. i'll admit that i'm a jealous and selfish BF, so when i want a girl to be mine, i want her to be mine, but i also want to give myself to her and be hers.
and i don't like (believe it or not) alcohol especially when it's in big parties and (almost) everyone is drinking, this is an issue cause at first she didn't like alcohol, and i was really happy about that, now it seems that she likes it when she parties.
we'd stopped talking for pretty much the whole year after 6 months after i broke up with her, and i wasn't sure if i was really over her. i'd still miss her, and thinking about her made me happy but i'd tell myself to chill thinking about her and i'd think about something else, cause my emotions would stir up and i'd go crazy thinking about her. i've thought of myself as weak because of that and thought she was strong.
then she contacted me to thank me for helping her find her biological dad, which i'd help her while we were together but she chickened out at the last moment. i told he pretty much your welcome but i didn't do that to be thanked or for any reward and she didn't have to thank me. i didn't say it to her, cause if i did i knew it'd stir up my emotions for her, but i did it then cause i loved her.
after that we slowly talked a bit more but it died off too
after breaking up it seemed like i was the one who was taking it harder than she was so i assumed she'd gotten over me. then she gives me a text while she's with her frat and she's drinking this was Friday at around midnight, we had good chats friday till 2 am, and Saturday and even today. but in just two days i've driven myself crazy thinking about her. we've talked about each other and our relationship i get happy and upset/bothered at the same time thinking about her cause i'm having mixed emotions and thoughts. and it made me happy when she told me she'd also been thinking about me and had even missed me too, but it seems she's now too happy that i think about her.
anyways, i'd like to continue talking with her, and even see her now, but when i proposed we meet and chat at a starbucks she said yeah but hasn't replied to a time yet.
thank you for reading this far, i tried to break it down into parts so it's easier to read.
-i'd like some advice on what to do with our relationship (friendship/give it another try/stop talking again/other)
-maybe what she's thinking about, ladies if you can give me some insight
we did have a good relationship, but lots of little things piled up and i decided to end it then knowing it'd keep getting harder to continue the relationship, and also if i delayed breaking up that too would become harder. she'd joined a co-ed frat, i decided not to. i'll admit that i'm a jealous and selfish BF, so when i want a girl to be mine, i want her to be mine, but i also want to give myself to her and be hers.
and i don't like (believe it or not) alcohol especially when it's in big parties and (almost) everyone is drinking, this is an issue cause at first she didn't like alcohol, and i was really happy about that, now it seems that she likes it when she parties.
we'd stopped talking for pretty much the whole year after 6 months after i broke up with her, and i wasn't sure if i was really over her. i'd still miss her, and thinking about her made me happy but i'd tell myself to chill thinking about her and i'd think about something else, cause my emotions would stir up and i'd go crazy thinking about her. i've thought of myself as weak because of that and thought she was strong.
then she contacted me to thank me for helping her find her biological dad, which i'd help her while we were together but she chickened out at the last moment. i told he pretty much your welcome but i didn't do that to be thanked or for any reward and she didn't have to thank me. i didn't say it to her, cause if i did i knew it'd stir up my emotions for her, but i did it then cause i loved her.
after that we slowly talked a bit more but it died off too
after breaking up it seemed like i was the one who was taking it harder than she was so i assumed she'd gotten over me. then she gives me a text while she's with her frat and she's drinking this was Friday at around midnight, we had good chats friday till 2 am, and Saturday and even today. but in just two days i've driven myself crazy thinking about her. we've talked about each other and our relationship i get happy and upset/bothered at the same time thinking about her cause i'm having mixed emotions and thoughts. and it made me happy when she told me she'd also been thinking about me and had even missed me too, but it seems she's now too happy that i think about her.
anyways, i'd like to continue talking with her, and even see her now, but when i proposed we meet and chat at a starbucks she said yeah but hasn't replied to a time yet.
thank you for reading this far, i tried to break it down into parts so it's easier to read.
-i'd like some advice on what to do with our relationship (friendship/give it another try/stop talking again/other)
-maybe what she's thinking about, ladies if you can give me some insight